Babies, despite being so small, need an amazing amount of stuff. Well, perhaps they don’t really need it, but having certain items will make your life so much easier.

But where to begin? How do you determine what you need, what you’ll buy and what you’ll put on your registry for other people to get for you?

The answer is easier than you think.

There are several “Baby Registry” templates online, including this comprehensive one from Babies R Us. Look it over and determine what you think is necessary. Considering you may not have that much experience with babies, how are you to determine if a diaper wipes warmer is too much, or if you need 10-12 blankets?

Simple. Start with basics and work your way up. For the first couple months, the baby’s day consists of eating, sleeping and pooping. Focus on items to make those chores easier. Those are items that you MUST have before the baby comes home.

So what do you put on your registry?

Typically, the parents (or grandparents or other family members) purchase the big items: strollers, cribs, car seats, and such.  Friends and other baby shower guests will typically buy smaller, less expensive items in larger quantity. Think socks, diapers, bottles, etc. These are the items you want to focus on in your registry.

Also, remember that the child’s first year is a blur of development milestones. You may think you won’t need a high chair for a while, or a forward-facing car seat, but babies grow up extremely fast! Blink and they’ll be walking. Close your eyes for a minute and then they’re talking. It’s amazing how fast these changes are. Put a few long-range items, like baby spoons and sippy cups, on your registry. Once that time comes for them to use it, you’ll be glad you did.

So let’s hear it: what items were must-haves on your baby registry? What did you think you wanted but it ended up gathering dust?